What do you do?

What do you do when you best friend gets into an accident so bad that she loses her son and she is still not awake? What do you do when you know you can make the 3.5 hour trip to see her but don't because you're afraid of what she will look like? What do you do besides pray? I just don't know. My friend Julie McComiskey was in a bad accident. A few weeks ago now, she was rear ended by a milk truck. He wasn't paying attention. Because of that she and Tabor lost their son. So what do you when you just don't know what to do? Is it ok to be happy? I am afraid to be happy. I just want things to go back to the way they were before Sept. 16th. But thats not going to happen, will it? Pray for them...pray God heals their hearts.